I can’t tell which of these online dating sites make sense anymore? They all look alike and seem to offer the same stuff? Does anyone use a site they’d recommend to meet a good guy – no one *** crazed, but actually interested in meeting someone and dating? also – it seems the paid sites must be better than the free ones? is this a good assumption? i’m assuming there are tons more options/people and services available on the paid sites? finally – does online dating even work anymore? are any of the good guys out there even on these sites or do you assume only desperate, crazy women use them? :)